How many of us have go-to drink recipes or a signature cocktail we whip up at social gatherings? Well, this episode brings you a fun, fresh cocktail idea - the Blueberry Storm. And who better to join me in creating this delightful cocktail than my sister-in-law, Faith. As we sip on our concoctions, an intriguing discussion unfolds about relationships and their complex landscapes.
The concept of relationship titles, toxic actions, and the influence of single friends in our lives are dissected over our drinks. We delve into the nitty-gritty of social media's impact, the beauty (and challenges) of long-term partnerships, and the importance of being mindful of our company. It's a candid conversation sprinkled with personal anecdotes and insights, which you won't want to miss.
We culminate our conversation by discussing the pros and cons of taking a break in a relationship. We share our personal experiences and learnings, and discuss why stepping back may sometimes be the way forward. To wrap things up, there's an exciting announcement about my search for a personal assistant for this podcast. So, tune in for an episode packed with insightful conversations, hearty laughs, and a cocktail recipe you'll want to try at home!
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How many of us have go-to drink recipes or a signature cocktail we whip up at social gatherings? Well, this episode brings you a fun, fresh cocktail idea - the Blueberry Storm. And who better to join me in creating this delightful cocktail than my sister-in-law, Faith. As we sip on our concoctions, an intriguing discussion unfolds about relationships and their complex landscapes.
The concept of relationship titles, toxic actions, and the influence of single friends in our lives are dissected over our drinks. We delve into the nitty-gritty of social media's impact, the beauty (and challenges) of long-term partnerships, and the importance of being mindful of our company. It's a candid conversation sprinkled with personal anecdotes and insights, which you won't want to miss.
We culminate our conversation by discussing the pros and cons of taking a break in a relationship. We share our personal experiences and learnings, and discuss why stepping back may sometimes be the way forward. To wrap things up, there's an exciting announcement about my search for a personal assistant for this podcast. So, tune in for an episode packed with insightful conversations, hearty laughs, and a cocktail recipe you'll want to try at home!
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Welcome to Cocktails and Come Over with Kaya, where we sit and make cocktails and open up about our personal life. Today's special guest is my sister-in-law, ms Faith.
Speaker 2:Hey everyone, my name is Faith. How you doing Good? Good, yeah, I'm doing good. How about you? I am?
Speaker 1:Great girl. Let's get into these drinks. Y'all know we started my podcast about making cocktails today. I came up with this cocktail at the last minute and I call it the blueberry storm. So first of course, I put a small video up there because y'all can't see everything that we're pouring in these glasses. But we're going to start off pouring this blueberry syrup in the glass. You just pour it around. I didn't pour it here. You y'all see, I didn't pour this shit all over everywhere. It's sweet, so there you go, Top it. So after you do your blueberry syrup, you're going to pour your tequila. You pour how much tequila you want. You got your own bottles.
Speaker 2:Oh, so you're trying to say my bottle.
Speaker 1:You're trying to say my bottle tequila. So just pour how much you want to pour, thank you, how much ever you drink A little bit, a little bit mouth. So, you guys, this is episode five and this is going to be a good episode and it's going to be a different episode. It ain't like most episodes, but let me get back into this drink. So, after your tequila, you're going to pour your shot of kinky in. Oh boy.
Speaker 2:This is for you.
Speaker 1:Then you're going to pour your blue ocean blue lemonade or how much ever. What's she want?
Speaker 2:They should sponsor us for how good we look right now.
Speaker 1:I know right. And then last you're going to pour your sweet and sour meat. You beat me up.
Speaker 2:I'm trying to get this drink on me, move me too, okay and then you put your lemon.
Speaker 1:Let me stir it up. First you're going to stir it up. You're going to stir this drink up and then put your lemon going in. I'm going to put one on the outside.
Speaker 2:Here you go, here you go.
Speaker 1:Okay, y'all how we doing.
Speaker 2:Right, I'm struggling.
Speaker 1:Let me taste this blue storm.
Speaker 2:I'm so excited.
Speaker 1:It looks good, I'm going to get my Lennie's opine. See how this tastes.
Speaker 2:Baby, the drink is liquor. Baby, this is a baby drink.
Speaker 1:This is the bomb.
Speaker 2:This is so delicious, oh my God. This drink I have ever made so far, Baby this is a good drink, delivery, delivery.
Speaker 1:So you guys, let's get into our interview. Like I said, my special guest is my sister-in-law, faith, and we're going to jump right into our interview. As y'all know, I started my interview off with six questions that I asked everyone. Baby, my sister got a hold on to the glass and they let go.
Speaker 2:It's so good I'm trying. I'm going to be the first one to make some. It is so delicious.
Speaker 1:I should make this drink and shout me out when y'all make it, because it is very good. It is my own personal drink, so shout me out. Thank you.
Speaker 2:The bomb.
Speaker 1:Okay, sis, let's get inside the interview.
Speaker 2:So first, like I said I, asked everybody's first seven questions.
Speaker 1:Basically, what are your pronouns, where are you from, what's your occupation, your zodiac sign, your marital status and do you have kids and if you do, how many? So we're going to start out with your pronouns.
Speaker 2:What are your pronouns?
Speaker 1:I'm a her, her and she.
Speaker 2:She, her and she Okay your pronouns when are you from? I'm from Memphis, straight after North, North, North. What's your occupation? My occupation is I'm a hostess and on the side I do treats chocolate, coffee, strawberry, everything. So would you already know, but they don't know.
Speaker 1:So I own boss, I own boss.
Speaker 2:Yes, apparently you got to have a side of us too.
Speaker 1:Yes, Okay, what's your zodiac sign? Aquaries Aquaries in the house.
Speaker 2:I'm a fucking.
Speaker 1:Aquarius.
Speaker 2:Yes, I'm a fucking.
Speaker 1:Bill Fitt yes, okay, what's your marital status? Girls, your single, your dating?
Speaker 2:I'm dating.
Speaker 1:You dating? Yes, my bro, yes, don't play with it, don't play with it, don't play with it.
Speaker 2:Period. My man, my man, my man. Okay, do you have kids? Yes, I have two. Two kids, a boy and a girl. Yes, ma'am, one of nine months. The other one is two years old. Terrible two, and she's old is.
Speaker 1:Fancy, she's a badass she run downstairs right now.
Speaker 2:So yeah, we're going to get into the interviews.
Speaker 1:First, we're going to start off with a game, all it is. Finish the sentence. Probably not even be a sentence, you just add on to it. Just finish whatever you can come up with.
Speaker 2:It may be a song, if you can relate to the song, if you know the song, finish the song or just add on to whatever the hell you add on.
Speaker 1:So I'm going to start off and you finish. Okay, we got 20 of them. So, number one it's been a long time since, and when I stop, you just add on to the rest of it. Hold on, hold on, hold on.
Speaker 2:Can you give me hints? It's not, you just finish, you just got to add on to it Finish the sentence. It's whatever you come up with, okay.
Speaker 1:Whatever you make, you have to make up the rest of it. I made the first you make the rest.
Speaker 2:Okay, I made the first, you make the rest. I made the first. I made the first.
Speaker 1:I made the first you make the rest, so it's been a long time since.
Speaker 2:It's been a long time since I had a blunt. There you go.
Speaker 1:Bam See what I mean.
Speaker 2:Baby, there you go, like that blunt up, like that blunt up, sis.
Speaker 1:Now that we smoked up on here, we eat it. Good for your sister, yes, We'll cut it safe. I'm a healthy kid.
Speaker 2:I smoke broccoli.
Speaker 1:Okay, so the next one Love sometimes can be hard. Amen. Amen to that Number three. I know this name.
Speaker 2:I know this name.
Speaker 1:I know this name.
Speaker 2:Johnny.
Speaker 1:I know his name, johnny. Okay, for the love of my life Does the most.
Speaker 2:Oh my Crazy. Crazy question how long could repeat it again? It ain't no question.
Speaker 1:I mean not a question, finish it, Finish it.
Speaker 2:The love of my life.
Speaker 1:Does the most when, when I may work.
Speaker 2:The mind blowing the phone up Five.
Speaker 1:How can?
Speaker 2:I easy. How can I?
Speaker 1:easy. You say how can I easy?
Speaker 2:That's a song right there.
Speaker 1:How can I easy pay? There you go. Thanks for watching.
Speaker 2:I used to know a guy who I used to know a guy that did taekwondo and I was like, okay, and y'all?
Speaker 1:another thing let me explain to y'all, because a lot of people ask me to be thinking I'll be looking at my phone and not paying attention to my interview. But my notes are in my phone. My whole episode be in my phone. So that's the reason I look up and down in my phone, because everything that you know what I'm saying, I have everything in my phone. So it's not me being texting or you know what I'm saying. I'm just reading my notes and reading if I forget something.
Speaker 1:So yeah, that's why I keep my phone.
Speaker 2:Baby, they know.
Speaker 1:So a lot of people are like, why you being in your phone? I'm like get out and read from my phone. So number seven. My mom once told me Not to touch the stove. Hey, life's get hard when.
Speaker 2:You're broke.
Speaker 1:Ooh, we say that again.
Speaker 2:You're broke life so hard.
Speaker 1:Man, nah, last time I check my phone, next time I check my phone, you see, you just put me on the spot. Yeah, cause you just doing these one letters that you got come up with some words.
Speaker 2:Hello, last time I check my phone it was saving.
Speaker 1:It was saving okay, I'm so cheap, I'm so cheap, I'm so cheap, okay Okay. Sometimes we can lose our hope. Yes, ma'am 11,. I love you, but sometimes you work, my news. My motherfucking news.
Speaker 2:I love you, but sometimes I just work, my mother out of the news, these men who are you? Okay, baby, he's drink, oh, he's giving, he's so good girl, if a 12,.
Speaker 1:If a chick ever tried my man, I'm a boost in the doughs every time. Okay, jazz, Missella 13,. The last time we made love, what? Oh hold on what oh hold on what the last time we made love.
Speaker 2:Can I what you think? Can you wait? It's a song Got. No, you can find it here.
Speaker 1:Yeah, hold on give me this the last time we made love. What song they did this time for me.
Speaker 2:I'm trying to see. I ain't know what was wrong you guys.
Speaker 1:It has been a busy week, a busy week for me. The worst thing that you can ever imagine happened to me. But you know I'm not gonna get into details about that. But yeah, I will be seeing it, but right now I can't find the song. What's this? You gotta just finish it.
Speaker 2:Okay, the last time we made love.
Speaker 1:I'm trying to find the song.
Speaker 2:Finish it then, Okay the last time we made love, I was stuck.
Speaker 1:Huh stuck hey, okay. Okay, 14,. I just love to cook when.
Speaker 2:My man come on.
Speaker 1:Okay, 15,.
Speaker 2:sometimes we forget about our love ones, cause I do, I ain't gonna last.
Speaker 1:Sometimes I do I don't, that's not me talking about them.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it's you.
Speaker 1:Life happens All right. Okay, 16,. How can we help each other get?
Speaker 2:Money. Ha ha, ha ha Money.
Speaker 1:Get the money.
Speaker 2:Get to the money, get to the bag. You gotta help y'all stop hanging so much.
Speaker 1:Get together, put your mask together and Right Yep. Okay, 17,. I need my nails dead at least.
Speaker 2:Two times. Two times every two weeks.
Speaker 1:Two times every two weeks.
Speaker 2:Nah, two times a week. Okay, I can't even say I can't even say that Ever since I had kids, I really don't wear nails like in no more In.
Speaker 1:A lot of women understand it with kids. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2:I mean, even like when I tried to get them short, it just it's just so uncomfortable Cause you gotta do so much with the kids butting their shirts up and everything. And me I'm not very good, wrong, I'm not, I'm not very good, did much good with short nails, depending on how short they are.
Speaker 1:But and I understand, that there's very true, because since I met Damon Boyfriend you know what I'm saying and dealing with Calmy, she was little you know, what I'm saying Trying to do. Her hair was hard. I used to always poke her in.
Speaker 2:The head came to a brook man's on.
Speaker 1:you know what I'm saying. But I love money, I love to pay myself a little to take. I love to get my nails done, get my hair done, so, but I'm gonna have to keep these nails done, so what I did was just pay for her to get her hair done. We both you know what I'm saying Just got stylist, just pay because I like to.
Speaker 1:I like to keep my nails done, and but you know what I'm saying. Of course, like you said, with kids it's kind of hard because you got to up butting up clothes, doing hair, gotta do everything. When you get that nails just like ooh, hell, yeah, fuck everybody. I think it went out.
Speaker 2:Okay.
Speaker 1:Okay, what would number we on? Okay, number 18. Love and I married man can.
Speaker 2:Hurt you.
Speaker 1:Get you fucked up.
Speaker 2:Yeah, get you fucked up to me. Yeah, I should too.
Speaker 1:Yeah, ali, you looking stupid, yeah 19. Why do all men Lie? Ooh, why, you motherfuckers lie.
Speaker 2:All the motherfuckers Lie, lie about the stupidest thing it can be. It can be, man. You look the shirt in the big seat no. And when you didn't watch him, leave it in the big seat no, he put the one for the shirt in the big seat you sit there and watch him put it in the big seat Reggie Reggie, my boyfriend Right Lied so much. Why he's about the smallest thing. It don't even have to be something to lie about.
Speaker 1:It's still a lie. Oh my God, girl, don't even get on this whole. What's the name of the talk about?
Speaker 2:Right.
Speaker 1:The last one, number 20. All I want for you to Damn, the gas is gas.
Speaker 2:Thanks for watching. Okay, I want you to do.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I am feeling good, feeling great, the hardest week I'm in hand. If y'all only knew what I had went through this past week me and my boyfriend, but God is good.
Speaker 1:We gonna be there and God's hands. But let's move on in this interview. So, yeah, this interview is different, ain't like Mostly interviews I have done while I see and I questioned the my guest. This interview me and my guest would be both be talking about. You know, saying we both when my sister came up with some topics that she won't discuss and are some good topics. So here are the topics and we don't basically just talk about these topics through the whole event interview and we might add some things in there as well. So so here go one do you think relationship titles matter To? Do you think single friends are bad influence on people in relationship? Three, what are the most toxic things you've done For? Do you still check phones? Why in the healthy relationship? Five, can you take a break while the relationship? What could there be a good thing for the relationship or bad? So those five things will be discussed. So we're gonna start off with the first one Do you think relationship titles matter?
Speaker 2:Yes, I mean, if I'm with someone like baby, don't have me, I know he's, but put a title on the issue. But I'm working more than that. I know better from the high me. I'm sorry, you better, you better friend me. And some to your family members, like I don't want to come around they. They thinking I'm just your friend, like like you know we fuck with each other and stuff. So tell them, tell them what it is. But I'm your girl, I'm your woman.
Speaker 1:Yeah, why man?
Speaker 2:What you think about it of course, of course.
Speaker 1:I think it matters because, like you saying, baby, if I'm your woman, you need you know. I'm saying they need to be known and I need that title so they can know, so the other women can know, madam them house Todd is our very important, you know saying, and if it ain't a motherfucker saying it, I did just cuz the mother just want to do, do them. But you know I can't speak for you by everybody.
Speaker 2:Everybody do. Oh my god, I like juice it do. But it's nicking up on me but yeah. I mean, I Don't see how something me a dude like. I don't see any comfortable with somebody.
Speaker 1:Okay, like Some some females come to you know saying what? Hi, I ain't gonna say hi, and it's just knowing they play some way. Yeah, you're right now deep to.
Speaker 2:The new millennia.
Speaker 1:Yes, and now I even just the new, the old heads to they do you know, saying they comfortable, you know. So I, I still, you know, say I get a All types of guys who hit on me and cool, they know I'm in relationship, you know, I tell them I'm in relationship, they still, I know how to.
Speaker 2:I know how to play my part.
Speaker 1:I'm cool with being sick. You know saying so. Some people are cool with it, you know some people. Some people don't give a fuck about Titles and she, they, they, just they cool with it being the other person of the side she decided me.
Speaker 2:I'm like the new family you are, you know, had me, you, only you, on post me.
Speaker 1:See well, my boyfriend he don't have social media.
Speaker 2:My son has social media, but we did have fun.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I think.
Speaker 2:But we did. Every baby he put, he had me posted.
Speaker 1:Do you hear me show?
Speaker 2:Why, cuz? Why I'm not on your page, right, why I'm not on your page? And then you know, don't let them be sharing. No little post is like they see you.
Speaker 1:All read the jump on oh.
Speaker 2:Oh, we, we Cuz we was. We saw our day. Well, we knew each other for a long time. We grew up in the family together and we grew up in the family together. He ain't my family man, but we grew up together, our families with clothes, so don't put, y'all get that wrong, right, I'm like we doing it but go here but yo, we was kind of back and forward Cuz I'm not 16.
Speaker 2:You want the answer keys but I wasn't ready and I was trying to prove points in my family. I was trying to prove points in my family saying I mean, cuz they already was like me, is oh, she's gonna be pregnant before 16 and I like these things. So like I had to prove it on wrong, I had standards for myself, I had standards for myself and I just what I want to go by like. I ain't want nobody to see me, is it? And he, I mean, hang a light, yeah, no baby on me and I love my still son devil, I know be the baby mama a little, my stepson, cuz he didn't ask to be here, but he ain't no the baby on me by somebody he really didn't know, like that he was. Just, he was just upset cuz he lost his mom, which I feel like dead with selfish blade. People do go through shit and I hold up his head cuz I really still love them. And the chemistry had the chemistry.
Speaker 1:What you do then, with both talks and baby?
Speaker 2:okay, baby cuz we had we stopped fucking with each other and stuff, but he had came back from a little. He came back from a learning sheet. Just acting like every five was so normal, so the toxic can start with you. So he came back. I haven't heard from him. Like a Christmas pass. I didn't hear from him. My birthday came around. I'm like, oh yeah, you gonna comment on my birthday. My birthday came right in comment my birthday. He's a disappear. And so he tried to pop back up and give me, give me some bad from body works. I was grateful in she. But my cousin, she make the situation up better. She was like I could have stole her that she. Oh my god, but it was the thought they count and but I see it when take him in series. So he had a baby in store for, like I Will be in my best friend.
Speaker 1:I said what did you do? How did you fight? What, what? What did you do? It was bad. What's the toxic?
Speaker 2:Okay, I don't wait. Okay, so he was. He means about mom. They were living together week we, his own sister, but they want to get a cell call. You know, I didn't need to get it, I didn't sleep. We I knew that was together so we had ended up. We ended up. Talking is still flowing back with each other in she. So we ended up being thing again, being thinking and we're back. I ain't like we're back and forward in she. So the most toxic thing I did, like I kicked his sister, though we I Keep this sister, don't mean I was a stand we see he was staying with you stand with you.
Speaker 2:So yeah, girl, why you keep them post? I was mad.
Speaker 1:I'll make.
Speaker 2:She yeah, I keep, I keep the dough and I fucked up angle, I didn't.
Speaker 1:So you know her again to, I mean she was mad, but we need it to.
Speaker 2:She was really fucked up, a baby and I put an angle. I moves back and forth, I put a sneaker, I put a sneak in his tank.
Speaker 1:They have to be cruise.
Speaker 2:I put a sneak in his tank in two tweets. Why the cost up the breeze? Yes, I had this night. I was just drunk and I was in my feelings. I was in my field cuz we was already back and forward and so so, ranny time, we'll do we just awesome? Oh, she, I ain't gonna lie, I bleached his clothes and and I gave his clothes away to his cousin Mike. And she, yes, I do, mmm, slice the size.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I did most of all it too. I said I think this is the most the toxic things I have done to as far as, like I ain't put no sneaker bars in the car, I thought about putting sugar in the same, but I have slice tires, slice tires, bleach clothes. I Don't want to the job Planned at the job, because I did, I did. Now I don't do none of this. I'm gonna come but make them 20s, baby number 20s.
Speaker 2:Oh, I was a team gang, gang, a lot of gangsta.
Speaker 1:Yes, I slow down but yeah, I think this was the most toxic thing I've done was a probably the bus and tires and no, I ain't gonna say the, the most toxic thing I did.
Speaker 2:I ain't gonna lie. Oh my god, I don't look at me. Different disease. I ain't put poeple.
Speaker 1:Gasoline.
Speaker 2:I'm gonna say no fire.
Speaker 1:I mean, I understand it. I mean when feels involved. Baby honey, she left that blew up the whole house, blue, up the whole motherfucking house. When, mother, you just chill. Fuck over you on me.
Speaker 2:When I feel it's getting by and the Latin feelings in some years like and I don't play in my feelings- she, who do.
Speaker 1:Don't. Nobody play about that feeling, no women, but we always be the one get her. Yeah, you know, I'm saying me and Gary, super baby, they love her in the beach. Most if cuz they a man. I'm just a man. Mother fucks issue again.
Speaker 2:Yo Zane cuz, why not?
Speaker 1:why I'm down yeah yeah, my cup still have way for Moving right along from the toxic. Do you still check phones? Why in a healthy relationship? Me personally, I think, yeah, I think everyone wanted to know whether she's in a healthy relationship or a bad relationship. You know saying, I think Me well, me, I'm speaking for me personally. I'm gonna look if I was in a good relationship or bad. One baby I want to know, you know saying, because anything you want to know is gonna be in that man cell phone everything right, we talked to what it is a burrow goes Rabbit, whatever it's gonna be in the cell phone.
Speaker 1:So Me personally, I think I Don't be in a healthy relationship in it. You know I'm saying a good one now and I still cheat.
Speaker 2:Okay, I'm in a good relation when I see, now I'm gonna send for my boyfriend have fucked up in the past, beginning both. Hmm, but she tried to Know better. He's no better.
Speaker 1:No, mother fucking matter, but I have me personally. Yeah, I would check. I think you know I'm saying Hold on how you put it. What was your quick? Do you still check phones? Yeah, yeah, I check me if I was in a healthy relationship. Bad one, I'm checking out to.
Speaker 2:Hey, yeah, I check them for sure. I know that you never know.
Speaker 1:The man, the nerve, the nerdy is they are baby. Check the phone. Check that man.
Speaker 2:Jumping. If you ain't gonna jump in stuff and snap it when I, when I, try to reach for that phone, I'm really gonna take it. I'm gonna take your mom's gg mail your email, you everything trace. Deleted photos.
Speaker 1:I love it.
Speaker 2:I love it, baby. I'll let me hear it. Yeah, it's cuz baby.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I'll slow her around to make her another, uh, blueberry stone one. When I tell y'all, this drink is very good. Y'all have to go and get the ingredients, the drinks, the alcohols, the flavors and shit and make it yourself.
Speaker 2:And shout me out cuz.
Speaker 1:This is how it's by. It's real good.
Speaker 2:This is real. I ain't got rhyme on my level and it's not like it's not. It's strong, but you can taste it strong, but it will sneak up on you. It will, it is good.
Speaker 1:So so you say, you own you a chick, you think.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:Both ways, I'm always be.
Speaker 2:Right, I'm always. But yes, I think you should most definitely check your significant other for him because, like, I just want to find out what I'm gonna fuck doing. I mean, even if we have good a band in our relationship, I still want to know, like I just think you should, because you never know what you might get.
Speaker 1:Do you hear me? Do you hear me?
Speaker 2:And I want to find out myself.
Speaker 1:Want to read this one, sis.
Speaker 2:Do you think single friends are bad influence on people in relationships?
Speaker 1:How do you feel about that?
Speaker 2:I honestly do, I ain't gonna lie because.
Speaker 1:And the question is, just in case I didn't hear you Do you think single friends are bad influence on people in relationships? There we go again what you saying.
Speaker 2:I think they. Well, I ain't gonna say all, but yes, I'm comfortable, I got my socks.
Speaker 1:You know, this is my podcast. I honey, we comfortable, we comfortable with ourselves, our ratchet gorgeous selves, you know. But anyhoo, go ahead, sis.
Speaker 2:But yes, um, yes, I will some, I ain't gonna say all, but some majority of them, I think they are because, like, when you we'll be going out with most single friends, like they be wanting you to do single shit and they know you got a significant other, like I had a good friends right here in Canada and they were like you gotta know, or kid, you only live once and not all these me and his sisters there try to take me out back, take us out by ourselves and you know, like we a couple and you know we a couple, like I don't want to go out with them. I mean so so like I most definitely do for some, for most of them, for most, for the most part, I honestly do what you think.
Speaker 1:Well, me personally, I get what you saying, but I think you know saying sometimes this single friend could be a good. I don't think it's all it depends on. I think it depends on who your friends is, what type of friends you have, because you can have this, because sometimes being in a relationship, being married or having kids, all they can be overwhelming and you know, sometimes you might need to this single friend to go out with. And you know saying just to you know a lot of people live, they like to, you know saying this single friend, so sometimes they can be just a breath of fresh air. Every single friend, every single friend, ain't peran, you know saying single life, or looking for a man, or got a club hop, some good, some single friends are good friends, you know saying are genuine.
Speaker 1:Like I said, just depending on your friend is the really? Yeah, it depends on who you, who your friend is because people are different.
Speaker 2:Yeah, some people are different and sometimes it can be bad if you do got a friend, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1:If you got a friend that, like the club hop and you know what I'm saying get me niggas every week, you know they ain't the friend that you know. You know not to just cut them off, but you know that friend you just need to hang with every week.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:You can go you know what I'm saying out with, but yeah, I be going, I do like. I do, I do.
Speaker 2:I do. I still be hanging with my single friends. I'll get me wrong. I go to little restaurants and stuff, but like no, I don't take me out. Like as far as I'm taking me, I still go out with them, but I just bring my man because I know what type of stuff they be on.
Speaker 1:So you'll go, you'll bring your man with your friend. We'll just say I would not do that.
Speaker 2:I don't, I don't, I don't.
Speaker 1:I don't like, especially with women, like I feel like now, if we double day, yeah, but far as me and my man going on on the outing or a day with just my friend girl, now I don't feel like this. No, we ain't doing it Cause it's kind of it's awkward because you know it's like third wheeling. Well, why he here? You know what I'm saying what, what, what year?
Speaker 2:Two women. She's gonna have a man or husband, but what if I end up staring with third wheeling about the end of the night?
Speaker 1:Well, it's fine, then I give my shit. Then why drive my own car? I give my shit and I have. You know what I'm saying. Get ready and go on about my ways. And you know what I'm saying. It's just different rules for different friends. You got single friends that they have no time when you got a man and got kids now you got time. You know what I'm saying. To come back in, you can't party all night and jump in. You know what I'm saying. As your single friend, it's just you. Just like I said, it's rules and regulations to every mother for the thing, you just have to know their friend. Friend have to know you and you have to know. You know what I'm saying. They know your limits and you know. So I don't think. I don't think single people are bad influence on people in relationships. It can go both ways.
Speaker 1:You know what I'm saying it can, it can, they can be bad, they can be bad.
Speaker 2:Well.
Speaker 1:I hope y'all can hear my little nephew down there crying y'all. He is loud, he is loud in the house, baby. But anyway, yes, girl, I really I don't think, you know, I don't think Wait you right, I see you coming from.
Speaker 2:I see you come from. It's just be the ones. I be somewhere in the myself.
Speaker 1:It be the rest of them. Yeah, it be it, be it, be-. It be the blue and red shit baby.
Speaker 2:And then, like some of my friends, like yeah, yeah, I got, I got friends, like they, like some of them with the school week, like, and I ain't cut them off because I mean I feel a little like my friends and stuff and I can't change the way they act, you know. So I let them be theyself. I let them be theyself and I see and I ain't good, I see and I ain't good too, but as far as them doing some of the stuff they want me to participate in, like the stuff they want me to jeopardize my relationship, and I be telling them, like I tell them I be straight up and tell them how I feel about it, but it's like they still don't respect it, like you lying and that that isn't it, but I'm lying just for trying to take peace in my relationship.
Speaker 1:They can try, Ooh baby, what they doing now he is loud on my part. I can't hear. Yeah, I got control it down there, can we?
Speaker 2:mute the mic goddamn it Now.
Speaker 1:This is raw live. You get everything back but, they better control him, though. Right, how love y'all, we got an interruption On this pie cat with this him Tim, so I can hear him he too loud. Back we trying, we finna finish it. We almost done. Yes, y'all here living there through down there cranking baby one mom you.
Speaker 1:So we on our last, last big question, sis, this and what you was, uh, you said can Taking a break while in a relationship be a good thing for the relationship? It's a good question and you know what. I think it did that. Yeah, hold on. Let me say can taking a break while in a relationship be a good thing for? Yeah, it could be a good thing for a shit. You know why? Because sometimes you know I'm saying you need a break. Sometimes you need a break from your partner and taking their break.
Speaker 1:It's a girl, you know saying sometimes you got to get out what you need to get out, or because my mom was married 30 some years and I remember, I Remember when her, my stepdad, separated and got back together. They separated, they got back together I. It made them stronger. So I actually believe you know, saying sometimes taking a break can't be a good thing in a relationship.
Speaker 2:It really can't. Sometimes you need to break something.
Speaker 1:You just need to break to get away from they, motherfucking, as then you miss them in, you know, and you have to get back. Sometimes it ain't you know they miss it. Be so sometimes taking break can be a shimmer, a great thing.
Speaker 2:What I'm gonna definitely think he does. It could be a great thing, cuz I mean it do you do make our strong when y'all separated come back together. It's just like you in high school when you you can you see a boo in school and stuff, but Basically you don't see them when they go home and stuff, and on the weekends you just miss them. I'm so much you want to see them on the weekend and I feel like they be little breaks too when you, when like some like a school relationship, no breaks do be needed. Yeah, even just for self-tied, like when you take time yourself Going to get your headie hang with your friends, right, you just always.
Speaker 1:So, sis, we didn't get that. So you guys, we from the end this interview and I just want to go with some things before I end this interview. I have a Right now. Y'all is a lot on me, doing these pop, this pot, this podcast by myself. It is a lot of work and I do everything by myself, from recording to editing to reaching out to the people. Well now, you know, since I didn't got into my podcast and record, now people reach out to me and that's a good thing so that I don't have to go find people and find stories, and I'm glad now I could just go check in Boston, call a person, push them.
Speaker 1:She put an interview together and you know saying go that that way, then rather searching. But right now I am looking for me a personal assistant. Of course, you know I'm saying I will pay you. I Need my person system because there's a lot of work on me and I do need some help with my podcast. Really, I don't need. I got everything. I need all the equipment that I need and the equipment that you may need. But I am looking for assistant right now so you can reach out to me through email and this is kaya war 19 as emailcom or through my Facebook, my Instagram, my I don't have to it anymore my snapchat, my Tiktok to reach, reach me, just by any platform. So yeah, this is You're getting ready in this interview. I enjoy. I gotta cut it. Let's show my sister's got to them. Baby, I mean cuz he down there crook.
Speaker 2:He couldn't I enjoy you, sis. I enjoyed you too, and if nobody ever told you you doing the maze job.
Speaker 1:And I love you, and I love you too, you deserve everything.
Speaker 2:It's coming your way.
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